We give practical support by offering advice, counseling, mentoring and ongoing coaching with a view to going from misery to an outrageously happy marriage. Chances are that you have tried traditional marriage counseling to no avail. That is probably why you find yourself here today. Working with Joel and Kathy is totally different than anything you have experienced in the past. We are not just teaching how to survive in a sad marriage. If you have been disappointed with past counselors, it is understandable that you might have doubts and questions. You have now found help that is different. It actually works!
We look forward to speaking with you!
Our marriage coaching and mentoring provides an interactive process. You will have a lot of interaction with us and others who have faced and overcome the same challenges that you are facing.
Together we will identify, understand and eliminate the obstacles which are preventing your relationship from reaching its full potential. It is so helpful to express yourself about painful or traumatizing situations that have been "eating away at you" from the inside.
As Christians, it is God's plan, purpose and will, that our marriages reflect the joy of the Lord, behind closed doors, in our homes, on a daily basis.
We are experienced marriage ministers who will work with you to move toward the goal of having a wonderfully happy marriage. Whether it is immediate help with a current crisis or getting healing from the painful events of the past, we are here to help.
We have worked with couples having every imaginable type of marriage problem, with women whose husbands are uncooperative, and with men who have lost their wife and need to win her heart back.
We take special joy in working with ministers and leaders who have fallen into marriage troubles.
We provide knowledgeable support, and ongoing coaching to develop the skills needed to be successful!
Then we help you identify and implement new strategies to reduce the barriers to your progress and acquire the skills, attitudes, and resources necessary to succeed.
Set up a free 30-minute consultation call to see if we are a good fit for you by clicking here.
Marriage, Family & Ministry
Marriage and family are the foundation to success as a Christian and as a leader and minister in the Body of Christ. Yet more Christian marriages are failing than ever before.
When a man and woman get married, the “two become one.” Marriage is supposed to be a bond like no other p a bond that brings peace, joy and happiness in our home, all day, every day. When done correctly, marriage gives us a life partner and teammate as we conquer the challenges of life together.
We have been helping severely troubled couples for 19 years, since 2004. You will be thrilled to read over 500 testimonies from husbands and wives, just like you whose marriages have been dramatically changed, healed, restored!
In this fantastic program you will discover how to make your marriage and family stronger than ever.
- Recovery from Adultery, Abuse or Narcissism Miraculous and effective help for marriages that have experienced adultery, abuse and/or narcissism.
- Love Boosters that Deepen your Bond.. Oxytocin and Cortisol
- Special help for Pastors and other types of ministry leaders who are in trouble. What good is it to "win the world for Jesus" while losing your own marriage?
- Keys to Success in Blended Families
- Emphasis on Fun! Getting your marriage healed and happy does not have to be a miserable experience. Enjoy the journey!
One of our FREE resources is a PDF copy of our "500 Testimonies" book. Many other testimonies are scattered throughout our books, past websites and emailed newsletters. We don't have couples sent to us with "small" or "minor" marriage problems. (We can only wish! Lol.) ALL of our couples were facing serious issues. Most have been to many counselors, conferences, seminars and the like - with no success. Some have actually been divorced, many were in process of divorce, others just discovered adultery by their spouse. Our challenge to them - and to you - is "Give it one more shot. Let us be the final stop." If you work with us, you will have the best possibility of a marriage TRANSFORMATION. We will be with you every step of the way.
Download your FREE GIFT NOW!
Five Foundational Keys to Having an Outrageously Happy Marriage
by Joel & Kathy Davisson
Joel and Kathy handpicked over 120 pages from their best seller, "The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His!" to create this life changing e-book. This information has sparked miracles in marriages all over the world and is available as a free download. Inside of this eBook, you will learn:
- The #1 Secret Key to an Outrageously Happy Marriage
- How to Understand the Subtleties of Your Wife's Heart
- The 3 Worst Marriage Myths that Destroy Christian Marriages
- The Truth about Love in Marriage - You Have Probably Been Doing This All Wrong!
- How to Have Great Sex for a Lifetime!
- Plus a Bonus Chapter Especially for Ministers
MARRIAGE MIRACLE ROCKET LAUNCH
Marriage Rocket Launch is a 7 Month program that combines everything -
Paperback and audio of both books (total 700 pages.)
12 hours and 26 hours of teaching for immediate immersion. (Physical DVD's or online access.)
15 hours of private "on the spot as needed" emergency (or non-emergency) time with Joel and Kathy. Phone or in-person.
Access to 12 hours per week of group phone mentoring per week (350+ hours in 7 months)
$700 Discount on a future 5-day Weekend Marriage Intensive!
Please submit your name and email address below - and set an appointment on our calendar to discuss this further. Or just send us a text to 386-334-7873. The call is free. We look forward to meeting you! You may or may not be able to support your marriage with this level of committment. We also offer a 7 Week Marriage Miracle Launch and we offer everything individually. Either way is fine - we will discuss your situation, both the Rocket Launch, The Marriage Miracle Launch and your ala carte options. Regardless of how you decide to proceed, our goal is the same - to get YOU to an OUTRAGEOUSLY HAPPY MARRIAGE!
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING
Cameron and Jacqueline Merville
"Cameron and I struggled for many years and almost got a divorce. We were 5 years in marriage counseling and saw multiple counselors during that time. In May of 2021, we found ourselves separated. Thankfully, God intervened! The day of our separation we got connected with an amazing marriage ministry that turned everything around for us. That miracle was Joel Kathy Davisson. After just 1 month of connecting with them our marriage made a miraculous turnaround.
Now we have a happy, thriving marriage of 16 years! We both have the marriage of our dreams. We are thriving and happy. Which I know in the Christian circles sometimes to say you have a happy marriage is almost taboo. Especially after the whole “marriage is to make you holy not happy” movement. The truth is that you CAN have a happy marriage!
For example: A few months ago, right before bed, I was telling my husband how one of the kids spilled shredded cheddar all over the office floor and I was going to have to wake up and vacuum in the morning. I was too tired to do it. Next thing I know he got up and vacuumed my whole office for me! And then this morning I wake up to him bringing me breakfast in bed! These are the sort of things a girl could only dream about, but now it’s an everyday occurrence for me. He’s consistently looking for ways to love me and bless our family. Connect up with Joel and Kathy. No matter what your issues are, you too can have a great marriage!
We have now stayed involved for over 18 months. We look forward to meeting YOU! As Joel and Kathy say, you CAN have an Outrageously Happy Marriage!
Update: (February 5. 2023) Jacque and Cameron just gave birth to their” Joel and Kathy” miracle baby! A miracle baby for two reasons: First, because of having 2 heartbreaking miscarriages in the recent past and Second: Because they would have been divorced had God not intervened in their lives in May of 2021 to direct their steps to finding help from Joel and Kathy. Now it is YOUR TURN to get YOUR MIRACLE!"
Jeff and Heather Allen
"August 5, 2007 is a day I will never forget! It’s a day that will forever live in my memories as one of the darkest days of my life.
October 2007, a friend handed us a copy of “The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His!” by Joel Kathy Davisson. I remember reading it in one seating! I could not get enough of it! Finally, someone who understood, who validated me, who knew what I was going through and was speaking to my heart!
Easter Weekend (2008) after spending months talking on the group mentoring calls, being on the forums and a few private calls to Joel and Kathy as well. That weekend was a changing point in our lives! It was the first time I ever say my husband cry over the pain that I was in.
The Bible say’s “Live with understanding of your wife, so that your prayers will not be hindered”. Well, I can say that my husband took that to heart! Today he is living in understanding with me...and the blessings have been many and great! I am now in a place that I never knew even existed years ago!
In 2007, I was facing divorce, today I wake knowing how much I am loved by my husband and cannot even fathom being anywhere else on this earth, than beside him! I can say that the journey is never over...but just gets better each and every day!
Update: On July 18th of 2022... we celebrated 30 years of marriage, with 14 of those years living the “Joeland Kathy way!” Our oldest daughter has gotten married, and our youngest is now engaged! They have both read BOTH books as well!
Within these last 14 years, we have moved twice, first to KS, (which was a MAJOR turning point in our marriage... Joel and Kathy had recommended that we move.) I know without a doubt I would have never healed if we had stay where we were. We healed, worked together and helped with this ministry for over 3 years.
On April 2, 2013, I lost my brother to suicide. At the same time my father went into full heart failure, andthen Jeff lost his job. All of this within a six-month period. So, we decided to move back to our hometown in SC. On the same day, April 2, 2014.... My father passed away.
Before our “Joel and Kathy Miracle” this would have probably put me in the mental hospital. But Jeff was so supportive and calm, he was able to help me through all the emotions and listening to my heart. We got through it. While it was painful to lose them both, I knew Jeff was right there beside me!"
Wouldn’t it be great if your ministry were full of awesomely happy marriages?
Wouldn’t it be great if God’s presence and love were so present in your couple’s homes that they would feel like they are experiencing the Glory of God in their homes, all day long, every day?
If you have had too many divorces in your ministry; if you have too many married couples “surviving” marriage instead of thriving in marriage joy and peace.. then you SHOULD be frustrated!
You are their PASTOR! You are their LEADER! This is happening on YOUR watch!
We have compassion for you. You have been reaching into an empty bag and offering “answers” that have not worked.
If you are (rightly) frustrated, PLEASE consider this earth-shaking idea: You MIGHT have embraced the wrong conclusions about marriage, wrong approaches to marriage and wrong ways of teaching marriage.... Yes, that is a possibility!
My healing snuck up on me:
In our bad days, when Joel was in the affair, he wanted to buy the other woman some flowers. (I'll call her Jamie)
Obviously, he couldn't just go out and buy her flowers; everyone would find out they were in an affair.
He bought her flowers and gave them to me. He told her that when she and her husband would come to our apartment, she would know the flowers were "hers."
Sure enough, Jamie and I were in the kitchen making egg rolls after church for dinner. As we came out of the kitchen, I saw the beautiful yellow roses and stopped to smell them. "Wow, these are beautiful. Joel got me flowers." I now know, in hindsight, she was thinking "those are my flowers, not yours."
For those who do not know our story, Joel got into an affair in 1990/1991. They left with the kids on April 1st, 1991. This was the exact day his father left his mom 19 years previous for another woman. Generational curse? Absolutely!
Marriage Myths are sticking their heads back up!
A marriage myth is an idea presented as a marriage "truth" for the last 50 years but instead magnified the problems in Christian marriages.
After teaching how to have an outrageously happy marriage since 2004, there seems to be a resurgence of the failed marriage paradigms of the past.
"Wife only" submits.
Husband "loves" - wife "respects."
Husband is the "leader" (often presented as "servant leader") - wife is the "follower."
Plus, many more.
Recently we attended a meeting where a couple was presenting a wonderful message from the Word of God. During that excellent message, they suddenly pivoted to marriage. Crash and burn!
